DID
you read my two last posts?
I
hope you did. Because this post follows on from the last two.
That
should help you settle down and work hard to carve out a path for yourself,
without always falling back on your people.
That
is not to say, you should not get support from your people. It is more like: You
should try to be the best in what you do.
(Some
of our relatives will not see far down the road as we can and therefore may not
support us very well to get us there. We will have to do it ourselves – or with
the help of others, who can see what we see.)
I
am always for helping people moving up, aspiring for something more than being
satisfied with where you are.
When
we long for, dream of, aspire for something, we come out of ourselves and draw
out abilities, potentials, view points, etc which up until then were
more-or-less latent (hidden).
As
an extreme example, let me give you an example of someone who longed to be the
best and became the best.
I
read a book by one of the best teachers in motivating others. He told the story
about a tennis player once who was an awkward looking and talking fellow.
When
the player was asked who he was he said: “I am the world’s number one tennis
player!”
The
one who asked looked surprised, not knowing the fellow.
The
tennis player then added: “Oh, but nobody knows it yet.”
That
was John McEnroe, the legendary tennis player.
He
believed that he was going to become number one when nobody was talking about
it.
Again,
do not let anybody stop you from aspiring. Be careful how you talk. (At other
times, don’t talk at all – just put your head down and work.)
Many
would not understand you. Just a word of caution.
May
you all have a nice week.
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